DEAR JENN!

Thank you for always being on my side. I know you've been through the worst time of your life, but I feel you've largely conquered it and learned a lot over the last two years.

Some people may not comprehend why you want to change and confront the challenge. They said a lot about your decision and it is a difficult task for a young lady without experience. However, after you've make your decision, you don't care about what others think; instead you focus on your strategy. 

I'm also delighted that you've started to care about your health. Health is the most valuable aspect of life. If we have health, we have everything. It allows us to continue studying, working, enjoying the life with laughing, having fun and being happy. Keep going, girl! Please pay attention about the food that you choose and eat. People have said we are what we eat.

I know you are a kind and warm girl. You're always concerned about what others think and want to make them happy. Sometimes you forget to love yourself. Therefore, when you don't receive what you want, you feel easily disappointed. It is great that you are changing your point of view that loving yourself first, the world will follow you. Please spend your time doing activities that make you happy everyday such as exercising, going to a dance class, eating nice food, traveling when you have time, take care of your skin, reading a good book or simply writing down your thoughts... There are a lot of things we can do, right? :) Let go of the unhealthy relationship and place your heart where it belongs.

Don't change any people, just change yourself. Simple things in the life might be beneficial at times. Instead of expecting others to change, we should alter the way we think. This is within our capacity. Take your time to reflect on what transpired and have the best course of action. Kindly learn yourself on how to modify minor action every day. For you, it is the easiest way. 

The pain makes it harder for us to forgive. We become frustrated and furious at time because we try to defend ourselves. To make your life beautiful, learn to Forgive, move on from the past and focus to the present because "Present" means the gift.

When you don't expect anything from anyone, the life is much better. Everybody has a unique personality, lifestyle, point of view, and upbringing. Therefore, don't expect others to do what you think is correct or to agree with your beliefs. When you are not feeling well, please say what you thought rather than remaining silent because people can't read your mind. Everyone wants a fair and flawless world but the reality is completely different. Some people act badly even when we give them the finest. But it is ok, just be good because you are better than them.

A new cycle of life is coming. Soon, you start to discover the deep inner world. I hope you tell me your lovely stories.